How many times have you held yourself back from doing what you really wanted? How often do you convince yourself that you don’t have what it takes to achieve what you want? For most of us, this happens often and more times than it should. Why is that?
We all have a desire to have a good life and to do the things that make us happy, but yet, at the same time; we sabotage ourselves from ever satisfying our desires. For many, the thought of a better life remains the elusive dream, but it really doesn’t have to. You can have all you desire, you can achieve what you want, because most of the limits you have, you actually set yourself. Of course, it is not a conscious act, no one purposely desires something and then at the same time, denies them self that very same thing. The driving force behind all your actions is your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind is what influences you to move forward or to take a step backwards.
Although it seems like your conscious mind is making all the decisions, it is actually the opposite. The biggest limits in life that we set are because of our limited thinking. Most of the time we don’t stop to think about why we do what we do or why we behave the way we do, we just do. We act on automatic and we let our emotions dictate our actions, but what gives us our emotions? Our thoughts…. and you might find that you have many limiting thoughts that are holding you back.
If you want to have a better job, relationship or health, realize that it is possible. I never said easy, but possible. You see, what you think is possible, is possible and the same for what you believe is impossible, it will be impossible. Whatever you think about yourself, you are right. Don’t underestimate the power you have within you to create the results you want in life. Nobody else is going to do it for you and it doesn’t help to play the victim either, blaming everybody for the things you lack in your life.
I am not referring to limits such as qualifications, age or disabilities, for example, but the idea that ‘more’ is possible for you, if you really want it. You have all the power you need inside of you to achieve what you want, if you are willing to get out of your own way. When you feel yourself wanting to pull back, to retract to what is more comfortable, take a moment to gain some awareness around your actions and what is going on in your mind. Ask yourself if a simple change in perspective would help you to move forward? Or perhaps you just need to keep pushing forward, ignore that limiting voice inside your head and just take a leap of faith.
You only have one life, you don’t get to come back and do it all again. What do you want the rest of your life to be like? Let yourself dream, believe and desire like you did when you were growing up. Take one step at a time to start making that vision your reality and when you feel like giving up, remember that we all feel this way at times, but moving forward regardless is what will transform your life.
If you don’t start to break through your limits now, you might never get to the other side!
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To your success!